Étiquette : couples

Tests of personality - tests de personnalité

Oser la vie à deux (1 + 1 = 3) – relation de couple

Relation de couple (1 + 1 = 3) de Frédéric Fanget (Psychiatre et psychothérapeute – Lyon) – 2010   Quand un couple se forme, une part d’inconnu, d’incontrôlable donne naissance à une certaine fusion amoureuse. Mais l’alchimie du départ n’est pas une promesse d’une relation réussie, d’une vie à deux heureuse. Dans ce livre une…
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Emotional Intelligence (1995)

Emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman – Picture: Dunkerque 2015 – When people with high IQs fail and others with modest IQs do successfully, I argue that the difference often comes from the capabilities we refer to here as Emotional Intelligence (IE).    

 

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Ego: …. obstacle to healing the 5 wounds

Lise Bourbeau Ego: The Greatest Obstacle to Healing the 5 Wounds Rejection Abandonment Humiliation Treason Injustice   we can form an acrostic in French « trahi » which means « betrayed » Some, not only experiment the same type of event several times in a lifetime, but must reincarnate one or more times in order to get to accept…
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Men are from mars, women from Venus

John Gray – Picture: 2009 – Who has never thought that men and women definitely do not speak the same language! Hence the frustrations, the misunderstandings, the rifts … while it is enough to know how to decode the reactions of the other. The propensity of men to propose solutions without taking into account the…
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Mental Health and society

Boris Cyrulnik & Al. – Picture: Carnival of Dunkerque 2017 – Pathogen, the couple? Chronic of invisible violence Moral harassment … different authors for different analysis of our society  

 

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Never alone together (1995)

Jacques Salomé (psychosociologist) – Picture: Juan Les pins 2013 – How to live 2 of us together while remaining different What do we ask the most: to be loved? No, to be chosen! We ask the other to prove that he will be serving our deepest wound.  

 

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These loves that hurt us

Patricia Delahaie 2001 – Picture: Liguria 2015 Can love be too big, too strong? Yes, when we give to those who do not care. Or to those who do like they aren’t aware. Our fault is not to love too much, but too quickly (without carefulness, without anticipation). The complicity, the same turn of mind and…
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Transactional analysis use

The AT is a theory of the personality (triune approach of the ego) and relationships (needs of recognition and structure) … with 1 contract: get better (for coaching)  

 

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Cure stress, anxiety and depression

David Servan-Schreiber (2003) – Picture: Liguria 2015 – … without pharmaceutical products or psychoanalysis • There are no happy couples (lasting emotional relationship) without chronic conflicts • Mismanagement of emotions is one of the main causes of weight gain in a society where stress is ubiquitous and food abundant.  

 

21 novembre 2017 0

Are we all psychologists ?

Jacques Philippe Leyens & Nathalie Scaillet Spouses of happy marriages are who are constructively open about conflicts. What should be interesting for everyone is to understand what is happening. To be an interested and motivated partner, who accepts to be wrong (as little as possible) as long as he keeps the scar.  

 

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